As long as you feel in control

∼May 13, 2016∼

Hello sweethearts!
I have been receiving love on my instagram from people who reads my blog and it makes me SO happy when people enjoy this little blog of mine.

I remember making this blog because I wanted something to pass time with, but eventually it became a place for me to write my thoughts. Not all of them because I am a pretty private person and I think there is a couple of lurkers from my city who reads my blog (well hello!).

So what have I been up to?
Just working really. I work a lot and I shop a lot too. I enjoy life and spoil myself. I am still at a point where I feel very satisfied by myself, but I would be lying if I said I don't envy other people's relationships.

Don't misunderstand. I don't feel lonely, but have you guys ever looked (if you're single) at a couple and thought to yourself: "I wish I had a bond like that". I don't feel lonely, but I can see why it's nice to be in a relationship. Feeling loved and secure must be THE best!

I enjoy being single tho and I am probably the type who wants both of best world. All the perks of being in a relationship without the commitment.
So in other words; I am not ready to enter anything serious.

The other day I was at a wedding and I was so emotional when I saw the bride and groom. I am not very traditional (read: in that sense that I don't DREAM of getting married), but I got so emotional and teary when I looked at them and I thought to myself: "So this is it. This is the goal. A love so strong that you just look at your partner and knows that he's the one for the rest of ones life"

Well it was beautiful!

Made me confused if I wanted the same thing. Maybe not now, but I hope that I will get that yearning some day. I think it would make me so happy in the end. I am not pressed about it.

Everything will come when the time is right.
Everything will fall into place when the time is right
The right people will stumble into your life when the time is right.

Speaking of people; I do sometimes spend time with people who is basically shit. Sorry, but they are just bad people, but I am grown enough to know that I can't blame others because it takes two to tango. I can just ignore them, but I don't LOL!

As long as you feel in control and do things with the best intentions; don't ever feel bad for whatever ill things people do to you and don't ever feel guilty for what you do. It's none of anyone's business what you do with your life. You don't owe them anything.

Do whatever you want, but also feel in control of it.
I think it's important to have things to offer too.

If you want to do stupid things, I hope you at least have a stable job or something like that so people can't just say: damn she a bum girl with nothing to do than do stupid shit.

Catch my drift? Be in a position where you can just be like: "But who are you to judge me? I got my life sorted; I don't need your judgements."

We're meant to make mistakes in our lives. We aren't perfect.
So don't ever feel bad for the things you do as long as you have good intentions yeah.

Karma is real.
The best things happens for a reason and the best things will come for the best people.

Don't worry. I got you.

Another thing I want to address....
Girls, if you want a boyfriend - get a boyfriend.
If you don't then good for you too. Do whatever you want, but always feel in control of things.

If you are at a certain point of your life and you're young and you can't find meaning in things in life..
Please work hard in school and get an education.

I promise you..
The feeling of independency might be one of the most powerful feelings you'll ever feel :-)

Love and hugs,

PS. I got my braces off! I AM SO HAPPY

young and chasin' that money

∼March 13, 2016∼

Hello dear blog!
I have been neglecting my blog and honestly I have totally forgotten about it.

You can say that I have been busy because of work. Last time around I was very occupied because of my surgery and now I am just working my ass off.

I am currently working full-time (read: 37 hours) in a clinic where the work hours are placed in four days and I am off duty in the weekends. It's really lovely actually, but very longs hours tho.

Sometimes I work overtime and then I can definitely feel the heat.
Coming home and feeling absolute exhaust. After work I still manage to go to the gym, but I don't always train so hard. Sometimes I just enjoy to be outside and my gym has a spa area so I take full advantage of that. Just going and enjoying some relaxation lol.

I am not trying very hard to lose weight. Just trying to maintain my weight now. Sitting at 59kg and that's good enough because I just want to be under 60kg actually.

In regards of everything else. I do feel it's weird how things can change so fast. It seems like yesterday I finished school and now?

Here I am..
Full time job and most definitely an adult!

Of course I will always be the same and I will also be humble.
I will never forget where I started and who helped me get to where I am, but...


I can reveal that @ the age of 23; I am earning more than double of the average Danish person.

So now my head is just all about that money.
Setting new goals and becoming the best of the best.

For the new year I'm getting rid of my loans so by the time it's 2017 and I am turning 24.
I will be debt-free and also have enough money to buy my own place.

Obviously I won't have all the money to buy my own place, but I will have the necessary 10-15%.

So that's my current goals.
Basically I want to save up 250k (read: in Danish money).

In regards of my love life; not much has changed.
I just don't make time for it. I am naturally flirty so it's really not a problem to find anyone, but I'd rather have casual relationships or just focusing on my current friends.

I am just not interested in being in a relationship.
Or maybe I have, but he must be really something special.

Because right now?
I enjoy being single.
I enjoy being an egoist.
I enjoy just focusing on myself and my money.

I know it sounds really shallow, but I never had this kind of thing before so I'm loving it.
I love spoiling myself, my sister, my family.

There is no problem :-)

Honestly tho.
If I had a boyfriend; he would be so lucky and I will be likewise.

Logging off!

Much love,


∼November 10, 2015∼

When I was younger, I used to be SO full of insecurities. "Oh, I am not pretty enough. Why doesn't he like me? I wonder if I can find someone who'll like me. Why aren't I pretty as her?"

You girls know the drill. We have all been through it.

As I got older, I didn't get more confident. I didn't have that sense of calmness. I was still haunted by these thoughts of not being "enough".

I knew I was smart, but that wasn't enough. It didn't give me any confidence.

So time passed and I got my jaw surgery and I finally became "pretty". I am quoting other people now. Even after surgery, I didn't get more confident. Sure, I thought I was prettier, but it still made me insecure because then you start to think - why aren't I prettier?

And now I am here and I think I found the key to everything.
It's so obvious now, but back then...!

I had no idea that it was all it took to become confident..

The reason why I bring it up now it's because I see so many girls who have so low-selfesteem and it just pains me to see it. And that's why I want to write this entry to give my perspective on it.

So girls,
Insecurities will always be there, but the thing is..
You need to love yourself despite all your insecurities. Put yourself first. Love yourself more. Demand that you get the best of the best. YOU are so important. Nothing is more attractive than a girl who loves herself and knows her worth.

Be humble towards others and be kind to yourself.
Have love and respect for yourself.

Whatever life throws at you, it will become easy when you realize that you are BEST.
You need confidence to tackle life, but before you can have confidence you need to have self-love.

What to say - What to do - What you want - What you don't want.
All of those questions will be easily resolved because you're setting standards for yourself and then decisions are way easier to make.

You don't need validation from others.
You are allowed to give yourself compliments.

I am smart.
I am pretty.
I have a kind heart.
They are lucky to have me.

It's absolutely alright to love yourself.
So please ladies.

Love yourself more.
We deserve it!

Happy thoughts from me <3

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